The Untangled Parenting Plan System™ (TUPPS)
Everything you need to create a calm, child-focused parenting plan — without wasting money, guessing, or fighting later.
A guided system for separated or divorcing parents who want to:
Reduce Legal Costs
Protect Their Children
Walk Into Mediation or Court Prepared
Most parents are asked to make permanent parenting decisions:
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While emotionally overwhelmed
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Without understanding child development
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Under pressure from lawyers or timelines
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Under financial constraints or access to funds
That’s why so many parenting plans:
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fall apart after year one
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cause ongoing conflict
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need expensive revisions later
TUPPS helps you slow down, ask the right questions, understand your options and do this properly - once!
What you get and How it works?
Inside TUPPS, you get FOUR core tools:
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Guided Parenting Plan Questionnaire
A comprehensive, interactive questionnaire with 150+ carefully designed questions that guide you through decisions most parents are never asked to think about — until it’s too late.
You’ll be prompted to consider:
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infants, toddlers, school-aged children, and teenagers
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weekly schedules and parenting time options
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transitions, routines, and handovers
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holidays, travel, and relocation
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long-distance parenting
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communication and decision-making
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finances, shared expenses, and future planning
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safety, high-conflict, and parallel parenting scenarios
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major milestones — from early childhood through to college and beyond
Once completed, you receive a full copy of your responses.
Those answers become the foundation you’ll use — alongside the Guidebook, Clause Library, and AI prompts — to create your own personalised Parenting Plan inside ChatGPT.
No additional tools.
No extra costs.
No guesswork.
This approach is far more powerful than a generic template, because it reflects your family, your circumstances, and your children — not assumptions.
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Parenting Plan Guidebook
Clear, practical guidance to help you:
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tell your children about separation in an age-appropriate way
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understand what your child needs at each developmental stage
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avoid common parenting plan mistakes that create conflict later
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reduce emotional harm and protect your child’s sense of safety
This guide helps you approach decisions calmly — before anything is put in writing.
Parenting Plan Clause Library
81+ pages of real, professionally written parenting plan clauses covering:
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parenting time, schedules, and routines
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communication expectations and boundaries
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holidays, travel, and relocation
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high-conflict and parallel parenting arrangements
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finances, shared expenses, and future planning
Select what fits your family. Adapt what needs adjusting. Remove what doesn’t apply.
This library helps you avoid vague language — and future disputes.
AI Prompt Pack
Simple, step-by-step prompts that show you exactly what to paste into ChatGPT to turn:
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your questionnaire answers
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selected clauses from the library
into a clear, structured Parenting Plan draft.
You don’t need technical skills or prior experience with AI.
The prompts guide the process so you’re never staring at a blank page.
This tool helps you:
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organise your information logically
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draft calmly and efficiently
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avoid missing key sections or details
Think of it as a guided drafting assistant — not a replacement for judgment, but a powerful support tool.
Choose Your Option
And because I know this is overwhelming…
Lifetime access to all templates, libraries and guidebooks
BONUS
🔒 Secure checkout · 💳 Payments processed in ZAR · ⚖️ Educational only, not legal advice
“Cristin has this way of making me feel both calm and empowered in the middle of chaos. She sees the whole picture when I only see the mess.” — Marisa D.
Frequently Asked Questions
What exactly is TUPPS?
TUPPS (The Untangled Parenting Plan System) is a structured, step-by-step digital system designed to help separated or divorcing parents think clearly, make child-centred decisions, and create a well-considered parenting plan without overwhelm.
Who is this for?
TUPPS is for parents who:
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Are separated, divorcing, or already co-parenting
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Want clarity and structure without emotional chaos
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Prefer to prepare thoughtfully rather than react under pressure
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Want to reduce conflict and protect their children
Do I need a lawyer to use this?
No. TUPPS is not legal advice, but it can be used alongside a lawyer, mediator, or court process. Many parents use it to prepare before legal discussions, making those conversations clearer, calmer, and more efficient.
What’s the difference between Basic and Premium?
Basic gives you the core system(Questionnaire, Guidebook, Clause Library and 3 AI prompts) to work through your parenting plan independently.
Premium includes everything in Basic plus 60min Call with Cristin, parenting plan samples, maintenance and child support calculator and more *BONUSES*
How do I receive access after purchasing?
Immediately after checkout, you’ll receive an email with your access link. This link takes you to a single, organised resource hub where all your materials are available.
If you don’t see the email within a few minutes, please check your spam or promotions folder.
How long will I have access?
You’ll receive ongoing access to the materials. You can return to them at your own pace and revisit sections whenever you need.