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The Untangled Parenting Plan System™ (TUPPS)

Divorcing with children? Feel overwhelmed by
co-parenting or the parenting plan?

Clarity and Guidance Starts Here

This is a guided system for parents who:
Want to Protect Their Children and Themselves
Reduce Legal Costs
Make Informed & Educated Decisions
Walk Into Mediation or Court Prepared

This is for you if:

  • You’re divorcing with children and don’t know what you should be considering yet

  • You want to avoid conflict, or are already dealing with it and need clear boundaries in place

  • You’re worried about missing something now that causes problems years later

  • A standard attorney template doesn’t reflect your real life or family structure

  • You want a parenting plan you can return to, adjust, and rely on as your children grow

  • You want to make child-focused decisions without endless billable hour

  • Your family situation isn’t “standard” — this system supports different ages, special needs, distance, and real-world parenting dynamics

If you don’t do this now, you will pay for it later.

Ask ALL the hard questions now and do it once, properly.

What you get inside TUPPS?

Instead of reacting to what’s put in front of you, you decide intentionally — Step By Step.

  • You’re guided through the right questions — at your pace

  • You understand your options before anything is agreed to

  • You select clauses that fit your family

  • You draft a clear parenting plan — without guesswork

What supports you inside the system

Each part exists to remove pressure — not add more.

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Guided Parenting Plan Questionnaire

So the decisions that matter are surfaced early —

not during conflict.

Parenting Plan Guidebook ​

So you understand your options before anything becomes permanent.

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Parenting Plan Clause Library

Carefully written clauses you can select, adapt, or leave out — so your plan reflects your family, not a generic template.

AI Drafting Prompt Pack

Simple, step-by-step prompts so your decisions become a clear, structured plan — without starting from a blank page.

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Each part is designed to prevent future confusion — not add more complexity.

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What This Replaces

  • Guessing your way through permanent decisions

  • Endless emails and billable hours with lawyers

  • Revisiting agreements after conflict escalates

  • Discovering later you “missed something important”

  • Being asked critical questions too late — once positions have hardened

  • Paying to revise a parenting plan that never fit real life to begin with

Most parents spend far more fixing a plan than creating it properly the first time.

Choose the level of support that fits where you are right now.

Anchor PAY

Best for making decisions independently without live support.

Best Choice: Includes expert review to avoid second-guessing later.

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Lifetime access to all templates, libraries and guidebooks. So you can keep coming back to redo your parenting plan as your children grow.

BONUS

And because I know this is overwhelming…

🔒 Secure checkout · 💳 Payments processed in ZAR · ⚖️ Educational only, not legal advice 

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“I finally understood which decisions actually mattered — and which ones I could stop stressing about.”

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this legal advice?

No. This system does not replace a lawyer or give legal advice.
It helps you understand your options, clarify decisions, and prepare a structured parenting plan — so any legal conversations are calmer, clearer, and more efficient.

What if I already have a draft parenting plan?

TUPPS is often used alongside an existing draft to identify gaps, pressure points, and future risks before anything is finalised.

What if my co-parent is high-conflict or difficult?

This system is designed to support clarity and boundaries — especially in challenging dynamics.
You’re guided to think through communication, decision-making, and conflict points before they escalate.

How do I receive access after purchasing?

Immediately after checkout, you’ll receive an email with your access link. This link takes you to a single, organised resource hub where all your materials are available.

If you don’t see the email within a few minutes, please check your spam or promotions folder.

What’s the difference between Basic and Premium?

Basic gives you the core system(Questionnaire, Guidebook, Clause Library and 3 AI prompts) to work through your parenting plan independently.

Premium includes everything in Basic plus 60min Call with Cristin, parenting plan samples, maintenance and child support calculator and more *BONUSES*

How long will I have access?

You’ll receive ongoing access to the materials. You can return to them at your own pace and revisit sections whenever you need.

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