It’s not the divorce itself.
But how you divorce that matters most.
Has Divorce left you feeling like:
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You’re drowning
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Overwhelmed by paperwork
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Conflict with your ex
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Worries about your kids
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And a nervous system that never feels calm.
I know because I’ve lived it.
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As a child of divorce.
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As a mother going through my own divorce while pregnant and raising a toddler.
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As a coach who’s supported dozens of parents through this transition.
That’s why I built Untangled & Thriving™ — to give you the roadmap I wish I had.
Our kids get one childhood.
There are no rewrites for them.
Divorce is our rewrite.
What if divorce could look different?
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Imagine... having a clear parenting plan you can actually follow — one that reduces conflict instead of creating more.
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Imagine... responding calmly to your ex instead of being triggered every time they text.
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Imagine... knowing exactly what your children need at their age — and being able to give it to them.
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Imagine... saving thousands in legal fees because you’re prepared and confident.
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Imagine... moving from survival mode into a steady, thriving rhythm.
This isn’t a fantasy. It’s what happens when you have the right tools, support, and structure.
What is Untangled & Thriving™?
A 12-module, step-by-step course that combines emotional grounding, legal/logistical clarity, and practical tools so you can create a calm, child-centered life after divorce.
Practical Tools to Make Divorce Less Overwhelming:
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Clear legal & practical checklists so you stop second-guessing what to do next.
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Parenting plan templates & decision trees so you can create a child-focused plan without endless back-and-forth.
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Scripts & boundaries that actually work in real conversations with your ex (or kids).
Emotional Grounding & Regulation:
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Nervous system practices to move from reactivity to calm leadership.
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Meditations & mindset resets to keep you steady when things get hard.
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Guided breathwork & audio practices you can return to anytime.
Coaching & Support:
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12 weeks of live group coaching calls for real-time guidance, strategies, and breakthroughs.
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Weekly lessons & exercises that help you implement real change, step by step.
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Private community support where you’ll connect with others who truly get it.
Future-Focused Growth:
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A roadmap for dating, blended families, and long-term thriving.
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VIP upgrade option for 1:1 calls with me for personalized guidance.
And because I know life gets busy…
Lifetime access to all recordings, templates, and guided meditations — so you can revisit the material whenever you need it.
BONUS
The UNTANGLED Method™
The Method That Changes Everything
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Team & tools (legal, financial, emotional)
Age-aligned parenting strategies
Negotiation & boundaries
Governance (decision-making processes)
Logistics (holidays, schedules, emergencies)
Evolve (healing, dating, intuition, legacy)
This is not theory. It’s lived experience, child development expertise, and proven strategies packaged into one program.
Untangled & Thriving™ Program
Choose the Path That Fits You
Not every journey looks the same. That’s why Untangled & Thriving™ is offered in three ways — so you can choose the level of support that feels right for you.
💻 Self-Paced(New Module each week)— $250/R4 400
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Full 12-module course, including all videos, workbooks, meditations, and the DIY Parenting Plan Kit.
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Learn at your own pace(new module each week), revisit anytime, with lifetime access.
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Perfect if you prefer to work independently and want the tools without the live coaching.
🤝 Guided Cohort — $497/R8 800
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Everything in Self-Paced plus 12 weeks of live group coaching calls with Cristin.
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Calls are held Wednesdays at 6:00 PM (SAST), 5:00 PM (UK), 12:00 PM (CENTRAL US) via Zoom (links + reminders sent weekly).
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Includes access to a private community page for accountability and support.
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Best if you want real-time guidance and connection as you go through the program.
👑 VIP — $1 500/R26 000
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Full Untangled & Thriving Course and Group support.
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Custom Parenting plan package includes: 4x one on one calls with Cristin, parenting plan guidebook, questionnaire and full custom parenting plan - attorney ready.
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3 months inside The Divorce Allies community (Value $666)— expert-led workshops and deeper support around legal, financial, and emotional aspects of divorce.
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Ideal if you want the most comprehensive support, combining structured learning, group coaching, and extended expert access.
Choose your plan below and take the first step toward calm, clarity, and a thriving future for you and your children.
Self Paced Course $250
4 400
12-module course with templates, meditations, and a DIY Parenting Plan Kit. Lifetime access to tools that bring calm, clarity, and structure after divorce.
Course & Group Coaching $497
8 800
Full Untangled & Thriving course + 12 weeks of live group coaching and community support. Learn, apply, and grow with guidance and accountability.
VIP Package $1500
26 000
Course + 12 weeks of live coaching + 4 one on one calls and a full custom parenting plan+ 3 months in The Divorce Allies. The most comprehensive support for divorcing and co-parenting parents.
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“Cristin has this way of making me feel both calm and empowered in the middle of chaos. She sees the whole picture when I only see the mess.” — Marisa D.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if my ex won’t cooperate?
Not every co-parent is easy to work with — and that’s okay. Untangled & Thriving™ gives you frameworks, scripts, and a parenting plan that holds even when the other parent is resistant. You’ll feel steadier, regardless of what they do.
What if I’m not divorced yet?
Perfect. In fact, many parents join before filing because Modules 1–3 help you save money, minimize conflict, and make better decisions from the start. You’ll feel prepared instead of blindsided.
What if I’m a single parent?
Yes. These tools support both co-parenting and single-parent families. Whether you’re raising your children alone or navigating a shared schedule, you’ll learn strategies that bring clarity and calm to your household.
Is this legal advice?
No. This program is educational and supportive, not legal, financial, or medical advice. You’ll get practical tools to use alongside your attorney, mediator, or other professionals.
I don’t have time.
I hear you. That’s why lessons are short (20–30 minutes) and designed to fit into a busy parent’s life. You don’t need hours of free time — you’ll feel calmer and more in control after the very first module.
How long do I have access?
Lifetime. Once you’re enrolled, you’ll always have access to the course modules, templates, and guided practices — including any updates I add in the future. You can revisit the material anytime you need it.